#BachelorEng All throughout her teenage years Hetty, or Harry shall we call him was told that he was too fat or wasnt manly enough. He spent most of his childhood and teenage years trying to make others happy and never lived for himelf. So he finally started to become himself or shall we say herself she blessed herself with the name Hetty and is living a happy life looking for the love of someone who can look into the future with her not back into the past where she wasnt truely herself.